Garls sex inforo hinde - Dating waiting not calling

Maybe you leave him there for good, or maybe just for a night.

Whatever the reason is that he is contacting you now, you know that dating etiquette would tell you to either send him to voicemail, or let him hang in textual limbo.

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But somehow the right move just doesn’t feel right. Every book out there will tell you it’s perfectly okay not to return his call.

In fact, many will say that it will only help you gain the upper hand.

So why can’t we follow this one little-bitty, time tested, widely known piece of advice? What if by not calling back he thinks you are a total bitch?

Not Calling is Tougher than Calling While you are waiting for his call, a tremendous amount of angst builds up inside of you. Or what if you wait too long to call him back and he calls someone else? What if he thinks you are mad, or worse, what if he thinks you are playing a game?

You are stressed, nervous, sad, and angry all at the same time. You walk around with a cloud over your head, and no matter what else you do to keep yourself occupied, it’s still there. Then suddenly all that emotional build up is wiped away. He’s called (or in many cases, texted.) You are satisfied for the moment. But then, not ten minutes later all the angst is back. Is it possible you could push him even further away at this point? Now you have to make the right play or you could ruin everything! For whatever reason, earlier you decided that this guy did not deserve a call back, either right away or maybe at all.

Now the emotional stress is even more unbearable because it’s contingent on you. While you were waiting you gathered all the evidence you needed to support your decision.You were just waiting for him to call so you could immediately start not calling him back.But once your cell lit up with his number, emotion took over, and rather than stick to your original plan, you became consumed with one thing: making yourself feeling better. You’d rather call him back and be done with that, than prolong this agony.You’d rather call and lose a bit of your pride than not call and worry about it for the next three weeks.We’ve all been there, and there is no shame in that place.The problem is that if you call or text him back, you will just be starting this vicious cycle all over again. So how do you fight this urge to immediately respond?

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