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Weve all heard on Oprah, CNN, ABC News, and the Washington Post that 70% of black women are single, and 42% are unmarried.
Weve even recently heard a young black women (Helena Andrews) say that she is successful, black and lonely and that Bitch is the New Black.
Helenas story is probably the most heartfelt as I can relate to her, when I was in my 20s that is...
but now at 40, I can say that there are many things that I have learned about Black men and 2 that stand out the most are that: 2) Our "credentials" don't attract men!
Just because WE feel that we are successful, independent, professional and educated doesnt mean thats were attractive to men, or even datable for that matter.
I have learned that it is our EXTERIOR that gets a man's attention (smile, look, personality, non-bitchy attitude, confidence and overall attractiveness) and our INTERIOR (our love for God, family, friends, being honest, supportive, respectful, emotionally stable, goal-oriented) that keeps a man coming back for more.Even though many news organizations have provided the statistics I mentioned above, I’ve rarely seen these media outlets offer any real solutions.In fact, I’ve yet to hear anyone really explain the REAL reasons so many black women are single, as its much more complicated than the “numbers.” I personally don’t believe in allowing the media to exploit this issue and give an appearance that Black people have issues and challenges that we cannot solve on our own.As a single, successful black women, I refuse to allow the media to make me feel bad or desperate about the plight of the “single black female,” especially given the personal and professional success sistas have made in a male-dominated world.So, Black men and women, WE can facilitate our own discussion on this challenge and identify real solutions that work for us.I’ll begin by offering a 2-part article to address this challenge.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating